Best-Selling Author of UnSelfie, Parenting & Child Expert, Educational Psychologist
Michele Borba, Ed.D. is an internationally renowned educator, award-winning author, and parenting child expert recognized for her solution-based strategies to strengthen children’s and social-emotional intelligence and character and reduce peer cruelty. A sought-after motivational speaker, she has spoken on 19 countries in five continents, and served as a consultant to hundreds of schools and corporations. Clients include Sesame Street, Harvard, U.S. Air Force Academy, 18 US Army bases in Europe and the Asian-Pacific, H.H. the Crown Prince of Abu Dhabi, and a TEDx Talk: “Empathy Is a Verb.” She offers realistic, research-based advice culled from a career working with over one million parents and educators worldwide. Read More >
TEDx: Empathy is a Verb
Unselfie: Why Emphathetic Kids Succeed in Our All-About-Me World
Virtual Keynote: How to Help the Pandemic Generation Thrive Both Now & Later
Tips for Raising Your Child To Be More Successful
You Are a Difference Maker
6Rs to Prevent Bullying
12 Keys to School Safety
Simple Ways to Boost Children's Character
How to Activate Kids' Empathy
Empathy is often sidelined as a “soft skill.” Dr. Borba offers hard evidence that it must become an educational and societal priority and crucial for helping students who have just faced a pandemic and dealt with social distancing, loneliness, anxiety and racial injustice. You’ll learn why empathy is one of the most important skills that 21st century learners will need to thrive in an uncertain world and simple but powerful empathy-building practices you can weave into existing lessons-whether digital or in-person. Best yet, every idea can be woven into your existing content. Examples tailored to parents or teachers (or both).
Dr. Borba shares evidence-based, no cost ways to offers mental health support and tools students need most to reduce stress and build resilience during unprecedented times. She offers 4C’s Care, Connect, Cope and Cultivate Hope to reach kids-whether learning is digital or in person) during these challenging times. The 4 Cs also boost resilience, increase focusing, improve learning and reduce stress. You’ll leave with practical, everyday tools they need to thrive both now and later. Examples tailored to parents or teachers (or both).
Michele Borba has been a teacher, educational consultant, and parent for 40 years. She empowers all of us by providing skills that allow us to support the current generation of kids. The bestselling author of UnSelfie explains why the old markers of accomplishment are no longer reliable predictors of success in the 21st century -- and offers proven traits that will safeguard our kids for what lies ahead. The high-achieving students she talks with every day are more accomplished, better educated, and more privileged than ever before. But many are also more stressed, unhappier, and struggling with anxiety, depression, and burnout at younger and younger ages. Thrivers are different: they flourish in our fast-paced, digital-driven, often uncertain world. Why? Dr. Borba found the difference between those who struggle and those who succeed comes down to the personal traits that set Thrivers apart and set them up for happiness as well as greater potential later in life. In her newest book and in her speeches, Dr. Borba offers practical, actionable ways to develop these Thrivers traits from preschool through high school and show how to teach kids how to cope today so they can thrive tomorrow.
This session (one hour to a full day) focuses on seven traits students need to be mentally strong and more successful in school and life. Data shows that today’s youth are the loneliest, most stressed, and risk averse on record. Though well-educated, they are failing to launch in real life. New research says seven traits are key in helping kids thrive. Dr Borba shares details about each necessary trait from perseverance to curiosity and will explain how all seven traits combine to ensure happiness and success in life. All traits are teachable, do not require another program or investment. You’ll not only learn about research showing why each trait is critical for academic success and personal success, but also how these traits help to improve mental health and resilience. Michele will provide dozens of practical ways to weave those lessons into existing content so all kids thrive.
Our kids are the smartest on record, but also the loneliest, most stressed, risk averse, and depressed. It’s why we must rethink our parenting so they can thrive in an anxious, uncertain world. The good news is that thrivers are made, not born. In this thought-provoking session, you’ll learn seven traits that science says matter most in happiness and success (even more than IQ and grades) and help kids thrive both now and later. You’ll learn how to help your child cope with everyday frustrations as well as bigger challenges, solve problems and develop resourcefulness, bounce-back from failure, develop an optimistic spirit, and recognize their unique passion to increase authentic confidence. This session offers hands-on tools to raise successful, self-reliant, and less-pressured kids who thrive in school and life.
These are unprecedented times but how do we help our students? Dr. Borba explains why empathy and resilience are core when educators and parents are considering how to help their children before and after school. You’ll learn real, no cost, evidence-based ways to help children overcome adversity, be more resilient and learn skills they will need both now and later. You’ll hear a range of support options from how to: rebuild personal connection after experiencing disconnection, teach coping strategies, minimize anxiety and stretch focusing, and so much more! Most important, you’ll leave with strategies to improve school performance as well as help kids become thrivers both now and later.
Kids today are more stressed, more indulged, yet less ready to take on the world than any other generation – that’s the problem. These kids aren’t ready to launch. They’ve been coddled and “snowplow-parented” their whole lives. After all, that’s what parents THINK they need to do to give their kids a leg-up in a hypercompetitive world: give them every advantage, make it “easy” for them, and help them succeed, no matter what it costs. Parents believe they are helping their kids by overindulging them and making things easy … but in fact they’re raising kids who don’t have the basic tools to survive and thrive in the 21st century. What these kids need isn’t more help, it’s LESS. They need to cultivate independence. But as strange as it seems, no one is teaching kids how to build these skills – or showing parents how to instill them. This program speaks directly to parents who desperately want to do this (but don’t know how to back off without letting their kids slide) and to educators who know self-sufficiency is what students really need (but struggle to get parents and even kids to get with the program).
The “Selfie Syndrome” is leading to an empathy crisis in youth. Teens today are 40% less empathetic than just a generation ago; narcissism has increased 58%. This isn’t just a crisis of character. Dr. Borba explains why cultivating empathy is essential to creating caring children, compassionate schools, just communities and a civilized society. She shares her nine-step “Unselfie” plan to stop the Empathy Crisis and creative ways to raise successful, happy kids who are also kind, moral, courageous and resilient. You’ll also learn that our exclusive focus on grades, scores and fat resumes is destructive to children’s mental health and robbing their potential to lead a happy and fulfilling life. By putting empathy at the core. we’ll raise children that become the citizens we hope they’ll be.
Research is clear: Bullying is learned, and can be unlearned. What’s more, cultivating empathy is the best antidote for bullying. Drawing from her book, The 6Rs of Bullying Prevention, Dr. Borba shares the evidence-based principles, policies, and proven practices that have made her a leading expert in this field. Her empowering, informative presentation is brimming with real life stories, the latest behavioral research, and simple tools to reduce bullying and victimization. This includes mobilizing student bystanders’ compassion to be “Upstanders” to help stop peer cruelty. Audiences leave ready to use the “6Rs” right away in their classrooms, schools, organizations and homes.
Empathy is often sidelined as a “soft skill.” Dr. Borba offers hard evidence that it must become an educational and societal priority. In this game-changing presentation, you’ll learn why creating empathetic, inclusive climates as the foundation for learning is the smartest strategy for ending the cycle of youth violence. You’ll also learn why empathy is one of the most important skills that 21st century learners will need to thrive in a complex, global, digitally-driven world. Dr. Borba shares how educators around the globe weave empathy-building practices into existing lessons and help students to develop empathic mindsets in a test-driven culture (that doesn’t always value it.) This inspiring session is guaranteed to be informative and filled with practical ways to create positive outcomes by cultivating empathy in your classroom and school.
Today’s parents are dealing with technology and digitally driven challenges that no previous generation has faced. What really matters in raising successful, happy, compassionate and socially responsible children in a hyper-competitive, plugged-in world? Dr. Borba cites the latest research to identify nine crucial habits and one invaluable life skill: empathy. In this game-changing “how to” presentation for parents, you’ll learn proven strategies to give your child the Empathy Advantage and cultivate their social and moral competence. You’ll also learn common-sense ways to nurture the core habits of self-control, courage, collaboration, perspective-taking and leadership — the very qualities that colleges and employers say they’re seeking. This session is guaranteed to change the way you think about raising kids in today’s complex world.
What can businesses, organizations, institutions of higher learning and associations learn from the latest science on empathy? Plenty. Especially in today’s plugged-in world of virtual workplaces, electronic communications and increasing personal disconnection. Dr. Borba points out that we’re all born hard-wired to care, but like all human qualities, empathy must be constantly activated. The habits that achieve this also make us more effective leaders, insightful managers, collaborative colleagues, and compassionate community members. Drawn from her inspiring TEDx talk, Dr. Borba shows us how to use the “Empathy Advantage” to build valuable social capital within our organizations and with customers, patients, donors, and students. Her motivating presentation is a reminder that being more empathetic makes our workforce stronger, our communities more stable, our stakeholders more engaged, and all of our relationships longer lasting.
"Michelle Borba was a hit! She was engaging and I have heard nothing but positive feedback. They said she was funny, genuine and spoke on a level that was real.' I also heard from several people that this state conference was the BEST one they had attended. Michelle Borba was amazing and I heard so many folks express disappointment that her speech was only an hour!! Thank you for helping to fulfill one of my dreams: delivering a conference that was meaningful and memorable!"
"Dr. Borba's message was relevant to the wide range of parents and staff registered (a good mix of parents with children in K-12, and several staff members), and I felt that each participant should have walked away with a new tip or strategy (or several) to help their children cultivate empathy. Her message is so timely! Also, APB was so very helpful in coordinating the event, and went above and beyond to help with the technical issues that arose. It was a pleasure to work with you."
"Each and every year Dr. Borba’s presentations have received outstanding reviews from educators and parents who have participated in her workshops, and each year she receives the highest ratings of any of our speakers, and we deal with the very best speakers in North America. We use her presentations as the standard of excellence for all our speakers."
"As part of our on-going efforts to heighten the awareness of the dangers of gang life, we have worked closely with Dr. Borba and have used her materials to teach youth the basic skills of negotiating a peaceful resolution to problems. For two years, over 7,500 students were exposed to this program and the results have contributed to an overall reduction in violent crimes and school expulsions by 25.6 percent."
"During the first week of school, I walked through the classrooms and was gratified and surprised by the immediate impact of Dr. Borba’s workshop. Every classroom had at least one of her charts and I caught a large percentage of the teachers engaging students in the activities she had suggested. Her workshop positively affected the lives of hundreds of children."
"We are still receiving congratulatory comments on Dr. Borba’s outstanding keynote address and follow-up session at our 18th Annual Special Education Conference. Because of her presentation, many of our conferees say that they are now more aware of the needs of their students and feel challenged to meet them."
"As I move around the country I am still hearing expressions of delight regarding your speaking tour. I have to say that in my experience as an educator who has attended many seminars I have never seen an audience rise to their feet in a standing ovation as I saw them do at the session I attended. New Zealanders are seldom prone to such displays of emotion!"
"It was a delight meeting and hearing Dr. Borba’s presentation. The feedback was amazing, and people left with useful tips. After her presentation she made herself available for book signings. She was very warm and very funny, we all enjoyed her!"
"Dr. Borba’s books have helped teachers in Britain to do work with young children that helps them develop the healthy self-concepts that are essential to holding positive attitudes of people different from themselves."
"Michele is wonderful! She stimulated and excited my entire staff with her research, her ideas and her materials. This workshop helped us start our school year in a very positive mode. We are regularly using her materials in our classroom now."
"She was AWESOME! The perfect fit to our work and message. Our audience loved her, someone even said we should have her every year."
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